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Fellas, let’s be real. Some women don’t want a committed relationship—they just want options. And if you’re not her first choice, you’re probably just a backup plan. 🤷♂️
But how do you know if she’s keeping you on standby while entertaining someone else? Here are five telltale signs. If you spot these, it’s time to walk away! 🚶♂️
1. She’s Always “Busy” But Somehow Has Time for Others 📅😑
She constantly tells you she’s swamped with work, family, or life in general. Yet, she magically finds time for girls' nights out, social media, or that "one guy friend" she swears is just a buddy.
💡 Translation? You’re not a priority—just an option.
What to do? Stop making someone a priority if they only see you as an afterthought. Match her energy or walk away.
2. She Replies on Her Own Terms 📵⏳
Ever notice how she leaves you on read for hours or even days—but somehow always has her phone when posting on Instagram? 📱
She texts you when she’s bored, lonely, or needs something. But when you reach out? Crickets. 🦗
What to do? If she’s not giving you consistent effort, don’t chase her. Women who truly like you won’t leave you wondering.
3. She’s Hot & Cold – Keeps You Guessing 🎭🔥❄️
One day she’s all over you, sending cute texts and making plans. The next, she’s distant, acting like you barely exist. 😶
💡 Why? Because she’s keeping you on the hook just in case things don’t work out with someone else.
What to do? Stop playing the guessing game. If she’s not consistent, she’s not worth your time.
4. She Won’t Commit But Hates When You Talk to Others 🚩😤
She won’t call you her boyfriend, avoids defining the relationship, and says she’s "not ready for anything serious."
But the moment you start seeing someone else, she suddenly acts jealous. 🤨
💡 Why? She doesn’t want to be with you—but she also doesn’t want anyone else to have you.
What to do? Call her bluff. Date other women. See how she reacts. A real one won’t play games.
5. She Only Hits You Up When She Needs Something 💰📞
She’s distant most of the time, but the second she needs a favor, she magically reappears. Whether it’s help with moving, car trouble, or emotional support after a bad date—suddenly, she remembers you exist. 😏
💡 Reality check? You’re not her man—you’re her emergency backup.
What to do? If she only reaches out when she needs something, stop being her free ride. 🚫
Final Thoughts 💭🚀
If any of these signs feel too familiar, it’s time to wake up. You deserve someone who wants you for YOU—not just as a safety net.
🔥 Know your worth. Walk away from games. Find someone who actually values you. 🔥
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